Acid Strength Trends and Conjugate Base Stability

Charged molecules are generally less table than neutral ones, and each of the molecules below has a negatively charged oxygen.

But not all negative charges are equal; some oxygens are "closer to neutral" than others. How? Because resonance stabilizes charges by sharing electron density over multiple atoms (this is called electron delocalization).

Hydroxide (HO^-) doesn't have resonance, so the oxygen has 100% of the negative charge to itself. On the other hand, the sulfonate ester (SO₃R^-) has three resonance forms, so each oxygen only has ~33% of a negative charge. So the sulfonate ester is the most stable anion.

In general, the more resonance forms a molecule has, the more stable it is.

The periodic trend for acidity is increasing acid stength as you move from left to right or from up to down on the periodic table, so the trend for basicity will be opposite; amines (which contain nitrogen) are the most basic neutral compounds, and oxygen is most basic than sulfur.

The alkyne (triple bond) is the most stable and therefore the least basic. This is because it is sp hybridized.

An s-orbital is closer to the nucleus and more electronegative than a p-orbital, and an sp hybridized atom has 50% s-character. 

Alkenes are sp² hybridized and have 33% s-character, and alkanes are sp³ hybridized and have 25% s-character.

Because sp hybridized carbons have the most s-character, they are more electronegative and are better at stabilizing negative formal charges than sp² or sp³ carbons are.

Therefore, the alkane (sp³) is the least stable/strongest base, while the alkyne (sp) is the most stable/weakest base.

Compounds 1 and 2 are more acidic than compound 3 because their conjugate bases have more resonance forms than that of compound 3.

Compound 1 is more acidic than compound 2 because the resonance form of its conjugate base has two oxygen atoms and is more stable than that of compound 2, which has one oxygen and one nitrogen; a negative oxygen atom is more stable than a negative nitrogen atom.

Phenol is more acidic than cyclohexanol because the conjugate base of phenol (phenolate) has resonance while the conjugate base of cyclohexanol does not.

Thiophenol is more acidic than phenol because sulfur is larger than oxygen, and so RS^- is more stable than RO^-.

The ammonium species is the most acidic because its conjugate base is the most stable (because its neutral).

Neutral amines aren't acidic because their conjugate bases are very unstable- a nitrogen with a negative formal charge is a very strong base.

Perchlorate (ClO₄^-) has the most resonance forms and therefore has the most electron delocalization, so it is the most stable and weakest base, which makes its conjugate acid (HClO₄) the strongest acid.

Size increases as you go down the periodic table, so iodine is the larger than bromine, which is larger than chlorine, etc.

Because I^- is the largest anion, it is best able to "handle" its negative charge (due to its small charge:size ratio), and so is the most stable conjugate base, and therefore the weakest conjugate base. So HI is the strongest acid.

Electronegativity increases as you travel from left to right along the periodic table, so the fluorine anion is more stable than a negative oxygen, which is more stable than a negative nitrogen, etc.

Because F^- is the most stable, it is the weakest base, and its conjugate acid (HF) is the most acidic.